Singleness is that phase and season of life that should not cause worry or anxiety but it should be a time where you get to pour some love on yourself. Singleness should not be endured but enjoyed but it’s up to you to make that decision.

Here are ways to help you enjoy your singleness.

Take good advantage of your singleness:

Singleness is a passport to freedom. You owe no one any explanation about how you spent your day or who you were talking to. Make that freedom count by going for the extraordinary, take your imagination to another level and have fun in your own space.

Travelling is an adventure you shouldn’t miss as a single person. Your singleness is the best time and season to visit places you’ve never seen. Have all the fun you need and make new friends on the trip.

Spend time with those who matter in your singleness:

Singleness is a good time to have fun with your friends and family members who are dear to your heart. You don’t want to look back in regret and wish you had time for those who matter now is the best time to give them some attention.

Learn new things

One major thing you can do for yourself in your singleness is to learn something new. Learning gives you a wider range and opens your eyes to bigger opportunities, the best time to learn is when you are all by yourself.

Learn what you have always wanted to learn, change your exposure and you will be glad you did.


You need to sit down and ask yourself some very honest questions. Don’t be hard on yourself but face your issues and work on yourself.

Discover yourself in your singleness

The best time to know who you are is when you are single, enjoy your own company. Discover new things about yourself and learn how to be comfortable being by yourself, learning how to be alone is important. Not only will it let you be comfortable in most situations, but you can prove to yourself that you’re independent and don’t need to rely on a significant other to be happy.


might sound like a very hard and difficult season but the truth is, it is the best time to grow, it is the best time to become a better version of yourself. Relationships function when the two parties decide to put in the right amount of work and singleness is the best time to learn how to make relationships work.

Take a conscious effort to develop yourself and you will be glad you did!

15 thoughts on “ENJOYING SINGLENESS:

  1. Sandra Morgan says:

    I love this. I’m in the season now but I’ve only been able to work and catch a few tennis matches. I’m using this season to regroup and rebuild. Saving money. Focusing on my retirement goals! Thanks so much!

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  2. Cynthia Franks says:

    I applaud what you are trying to do and you write very well, but here is something to consider:

    Don’t mention singleness so often. Focus on the fun stuff. When you mention singleness so often it gives the impression you are trying to sell us a bargain. “We are out of Veterinarian Barbie, but Veterinarian Assistant Skipper is even better.” I think your intent is to inspire and you write very well. Show us how you enjoy it and inspire by example.

    The title of your blog says it. Enjoying Singleness. Focus on the joy and what brings it. I look forward to reading your future posts.

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