To begin with the fact that you have high religious ideals does not inoculate you from sexual desire!
Here Are Some Concrete suggestions From The Single Perspective:
1. Develop positive feelings of self worth: If you live up to your own values, others will think highly of you and conflicts will not fear you up inside.
Your appearance, abilities or social acceptance, will not worry you if you are living up to your own ideals. That will leave you free to love, to work and to play.