Have you ever been in that state where your emotions were raised and all of a sudden the person cuts all communication and you can’t reach them? Ghosting is always painful because it leaves you feeling so angry and in a lot of pains.
When you are ghosted you begin to wonder what you said or did wrong, you go through your old chats and you blame yourself. You get angry that they are not picking your calls or answering your texts and it hurts more when they block you on social media.
You could barely think about any other thing, you are wondering why they disappeared even food does not appeal to you and all of a sudden you can’t sleep. You want to know why they left you without an explanation, you deserve to know why they ghosted. Ghosting leaves the person in a paranoid state, emotional hurts and heartaches.
Do they regret what they did? Are they ever going to come back? Will they ever do this again if given a second chance? These are the questions that come to mind when the person decides to come back but the truth is there is no excuse for ghosting, it’s a selfish move even if you need some space let the person know don’t leave them hanging wondering what happened, it has led some people to their early graves.